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Coaching - Feasibility Mania and Human Images - IAS
Coaching - Mania for feasibilityandImages of man
The Coaching-Market is not just growing in size and Importance to him
is also developing in other directions. For example, it can be determined
that in the increasing number of available offers also such
that arouse far-reaching expectations. So can in various
brochures and Internet pages often formulations of the following kindanden
- "You will achieve your results in 3-5 sessions."
- "Coaching helps you to achieve top performance. "
- "Our aim is to make you successful."
- "We accompany you to success."
- "As a coach, I will help you to achieve your desired goals."
- "What you im Coaching achievement depends entirely on your discipline. "
- "Successful from today."
In view of such statements, the question arises, which image of man
such Coaching- Providers actually represented when success in near-
of any order of magnitude is promised.
Should be Coaching- Vendors actually assume that success is just one
The question of the client's will is, so this approach works - cautiously
formulated - probably too short. In this case, the same should apply to the
Self-assessment of the provider apply (via advisory skills that
not insignificantly influenced by the ability for self-reflection
should not be further speculated here).
Is a Coaching- Providers, on the other hand, are aware that the above statements
are more distorting than realistic, he seems to assume that
its target groups expect appropriate formulations. But also this one
Attitude is based on a human imageande, in which of maturity and reflection
shouldn't be central.
In the best case one could assume that the above formulations
simply done carelessly or from a comprehensive one
Contexts were torn out in order to stand out from the crowd of providers
to be highlighted with "pithy" advertising copy. But even then it arises
Ask whether such a provider is possible in dealing with clients
displays similar careless behavior.
Christoph Schmidt-Lellek sums it up as follows:
"With such formulations, but also with some statements made by clients
in consultations, however, I sometimes have the impression that I am acting here
it is kitsch, that is, something that is 'somehow' fake, untruthful
Striving for something actually beautiful or valuable, but that is subtle
Carries deformation in itself. Can it be that some consultancy work
by trying to meet such desires, then even cheesy ones
Features? "(Schmidt-Lellek, 2004, p. 379).
This also shows that not only some coaches have dreams
propagate, but that these are also hoped for by some clients,
or appropriate requests are made to coaches. So it works
too short to give the coaches an abbreviated image of man
certify. Rather, this seems to be - at least partially -
to be mutually dependent.
Now it could be said that none of this is noteworthy there
such providers and Inquirers hardly find themselves in their image of man
distinguish and thus a fit is given. There's only one problem
at the same time: a simplifying image of man and the resulting
There are hardly any derivations to the different requirements of reality
fair. It can be seriously doubted that such "advice"
leads to lasting positive results. Rather the opposite can be
be accepted and is already through corresponding publications
documented (Keden, 2002).
The perfidious thing about "advice" is that "everything is possible, if only one
will "suggests is: a failure can apparently clearly assigned
become. It's the client's fault, they just didn't want enough. Thus results
the need to try harder and even more advice
to claim something. A reflected approach looks different.
"Even everyday life experience shows that for many people
Failure is part of everyday life for a variety of reasons.
Pretend that everyone can achieve anything they want
is absurd. "(Keden, 2002, p. 35).
At the latest here the question arises as to what life situation is in
People have to find and what self-image they have of themselves about the
To find the above-mentioned formulations attractive, or to appeal to them
to let. "For people with fear of commitment, it is a dream, the promise
to get, to find happiness without needing others "(Eidenschink, 2005).
Thus, the selection of the (apparently) suitable coach should be particularly important
the people are unconsciously influenced, who are pre-shaped accordingly
are. However, a coach selected in this way may thus be accurate
the wrong one, because, for example, it reinforces fears of attachment rather than right here
to seek a solution.
Therefore, the formulations presented at the beginning are in more detail
Consideration quite suitable when choosing Coaching- Offers helpful
- but different from what the respective providers had imagined
should. Who has clear evidence of a lack of authenticity and
Reflectivity one CoachingProvider, finds it e.g. in
- Promise of success regarding perfection fantasies
- Over-idealizations and Finings
- Simplifications, exclusion of ambiguities
- feasibility ideologies and feigned freedom from conflict
But coaches should also have initial discussions with potential
Clients make sure that these are due to different causes
out not wanting to touch certain topics and prefer advice,
which promises a seemingly comfortable "anything goes". "Most
[Clients] don't have a motivation to change, they have one
Motivation for stabilization ", summarized Klaus Eidenschink on the
CoachingCongress 2005. To what extent exactly this can then be discussed
or a client has to be rejected by the coach, then that stays with him
Left on a case-by-case basis.
Eidenschink, Klaus (2005). problem and Solution, deficit and Resource -
Sizeandparadigms of Coachings changing. Of sense and Nonsense of two
popular distinctions. Lecture on the CoachingCongress 2005 in
Frankfurt / M. A summary of the lecture and Slides can be found
Keden, Joachim (2002). An example for "Coachingand Vision management ".
EZW-TEXTE 2002, 164, pp.29-47.
Schmidt-Lellek, Christoph (2004). Kitsch in consultation and Psychotherapy as
Expression of an abbreviated image of man. OSC organizational consulting,
Supervision, Coaching, 4/04, vol. 11/2004, pp. 379-394.
Coaching - Feasibility mania and Human images =================== ================================= The coaching market is not only increasing in size and importance, it is also developing in other directions. For example, it can be determined that the increasing number of available offers also includes those that arouse far-reaching expectations. In various brochures and Internet pages, the following formulations can often be used and : - "You will achieve your results in 3-5 sessions." - " Coaching helps you to achieve top performance." - "Our aim is to make you successful." - "We accompany you to success." - "As a coach, I will help you to achieve your desired goals." - "What you achieve in Coaching depends entirely on your discipline." - "Successful from today." In view of such statements, the question arises as to which image of man such coaching providers actually represent when success of almost any magnitude is promised. Should a coaching provider actually assume that success is only a question of the client's will, this approach - to put it cautiously - does not go far enough. The same is likely to apply in this case to the provider's self-assessment (no further assumptions are made here regarding advisory competencies that are not insignificantly influenced by the ability to self-reflect). If, on the other hand, a coaching provider is aware that the above statements are more distorting than realistic, they seem to assume that their target groups expect corresponding formulations. But even this attitude is based on an image of man and e, in which maturity and reflection should not be central. In the best case one could assume that the above-mentioned formulations were simply made carelessly or that they were torn out of a comprehensive context in order to stand out from the mass of providers with "pithy" advertising texts. But even then, the question arises as to whether such a provider might display similarly careless behavior when dealing with clients. Christoph Schmidt-Lellek sums this up as follows: "With such formulations, but also with some statements by clients in counseling sessions, I sometimes have the impression that this is kitsch, that is, a 'somehow' false, untruthful pursuit , about something actually beautiful or valuable, but which has a subtle deformation in it. Could it be that some consultancy work, in trying to meet such wishes, then itself bears kitschy traits? " (Schmidt-Lellek, 2004, p. 379).
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